Are you affected? Are you a victim of family disfunction? Have you taken part in the big trend (that's been going on since Moses and before)? Of course you are. We all are! If you aren't thinking about how what your mom would think, you're a big liar! Does this mean you are scarred for life...I guess so, of course, if you choose to be...you are! Or you can you just put yourself apart...get out of it. Oh, I know what you're saying...Rach, you're in some kind of haven if you think it all just goes away especially since someone just accused me of being my mother. yipe!
I think often of my mother and her ways. It's not so hard for me since I do most things the way my mom did...I don't know if its cuz I think it's the right way or because my mom says it's the right way. Either way, I do stuff that way. Am I a victim or am I just learning?
I don't know what I'm talking about...I just had a nice conversation with my mom...so I'm just thinking about her and the fact that I'm cooking and that I'm putting the peels from my pototoes into the bag the onions came in...why would you want to waste another bag?
Some would say that I do things the way I do because I wouldn't want mom to disapprove. But maybe, just maybe, I like doing things that way too....it's a possibility. Or maybe I'm brainwashed.
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Doesn't it seem like women notice having traits similar to their mothers more than men notice similar traits with their fathers? Wonder why? Maybe because in general, mothers tend to have closer relationships to their children (male & female) than fathers do and therefore children 'know' their mothers better than their fathers. Maybe us guys are actually turning into our fathers -- but we're just not attuned to it happening. (BTW, I have never noticed a single trait in my father that seems to match up with my traits. However, my sons are always pointing out ways they think they are like me. Which I guess in the end proves nothing.)
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